I See Ghosts!

From a visitor in England 8-01-03
I see ghosts & I cant really talk about it with people because they would probably think I'm just doing it for attention but they're (the ghosts) are getting annoying, I don't just see them I can communicate with them as well, it's really annoying though because they are around me all the time. I don't see a see through heat type ghost as which my aunt can see but I can't see, I see actual people, they look normal, and they just follow people around like a shadow, my little has one that follows him called "Margaret" and I talk to her & Kevin is one that follows me, the list could go on forever. Please can you help me, I think my mum is getting really worried and she can't talk about it to anyone either so I'm trying to do something about it. I've told my dad about it and he's open minded about all of it but I just want to ask you how could I try and stop seeing them 24/7. I don't want to never see them again because I understand that it is a gift that only a few people have, but I just want to tell someone else about it and find out more, please can you help!
And You know the pictures off of the "HOTEL DEL CORONADO" page I can see actual people not a yellowish blur as which my brother sees and the rest of my family. I've got other pictures at home where I can see ghosts in and my family can see nothing. I'm getting worried now, please can someone help me, I'm turning into a freak! please, write back, I really need help! (Essex, England, UK)

RESPONSE:

First thing I want you to do is take a deep breath and relax. I know seeing ghosts all the time can be trying, however you need to relax a bit and calm down. After doing that you then have to realize that you are in control here. The physical realm is your realm and you control it - not the spirits you are seeing. Once you come to this realization you then can take control of the situation and refuse to allow the ghosts to just pop-in on you any time they wish. Once you gain this control you then communicate with the ghosts that are appearing to you and tell them that you don't mind helping them out, but it must be on your terms. Set up a specific time of day that you set aside to communicate with these various ghosts and make them understand that the time you have selected is the ONLY time you will deal with any spirits.

Being psychic is like being a magnet - spirits from the other dimension will come to you just like a piece of metal will cling to a magnet. The reason for this is simple - so few people are psychic on this planet and/or have failed to develop their psychic abilities that spirits oft times rush to those who are psychic to attempt communication with those they left behind via the psychic they cling to. In this case, you! So establish some rules of your own and let any that appear to you know that there are rules they must obey and no communication with them will take place except at the specified time set by you.

Don't expect miracles though - it may take a bit of time to establish your boundaries and rules. However once a handful of these spirits get the picture the rest will follow the rules you establish. To further assist you in this matter, try encircling yourself with white light - in your mind's eye see yourself surrounded by white light (white light is a protection light) and this will aid in getting the spirits to stop invading your every moment. You can envision this same white light first around yourself, then around the room you are in, then the rest of your family, and finally around your entire home. The only time the white light is not there is when you let it down to allow the spirits to communicate with you at the specified time you set.

I hope this helps. Let me know of your progress. Remember to stay calm, and that you are in control in this physical realm, not the ghosts that are invading you. Thanks for writing Eeeek!